Love, dating and sex. We all love to explore the world of love and dating and here in Merida, relationships, love and sex are hot topics for all!
Deep in the Yucatán jungle, beneath the heavy green hush of ancient trees, I had the chance to attend a talk at a hacienda by Stephen Jenkinson — author, cultural activist, former palliative care worker, and a voice for a different kind of wisdom. His work, grounded in elderhood and grief literacy, speaks to something […]
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When sparks fly between two people at different stages of life, age becomes both irrelevant and impossible to ignore. Here’s how to keep the chemistry alive and the connection grounded — no matter the number on your driver’s license. By Assata Akil, Sex in Mid City Let’s talk about it — dating across age lines
Love in the Age of Wi-Fi — Navigating Social Media in Your Relationship By Assata Akil There was a time when, if someone couldn’t reach you, they simply… couldn’t reach you. No pings. No buzzes. No little green dot saying you’re online. Just a moment of peace, mystery, or intentional absence. It might’ve started with
Written by Assata Akil There’s power in the silent revolution. The kind that doesn’t announce itself. The kind that begins beneath the surface. There’s power in the pivot. In choosing differently. In letting go of what no longer fits. In the stillness, I noticed it— a quiet invitation to pause. To listen. To make space.
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Written by Assata Akil Relationships can be tricky. You’re wooed, giggly, caught up in the rush of the beginning—and then you relax. You think, this feels good. I could get used to this. So you do. You stop dressing up. Stop planning. Stop flirting. Love slips into loungewear—lazy, predictable, unbothered. But comfort is tricky—it wears
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Hello there! Spring is springing, the flowers are blooming, and while you’re Maria Kondo-ing your closet, let’s include all areas of clutter—not just the clothes that no longer fit, but the emotional, mental, and even spiritual mess that’s been piling up, ignored, and pushed over to the procrastination pile of things to tend to later.
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The issue with the love issue? It’s only issued once a year. I’m here to report and shake things up. Love—perhaps the most powerful and essential human experience—has been reduced to a single day of overpriced roses, predictable chocolates, and grand yet fleeting gestures. Every February, we’re bombarded with the idea that love must be
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Hello, are you there? 2025 is calling—and it’s ready for you! This is your year to embrace fresh starts, new adventures, and meaningful connections. And what better place to do it than in Mérida, the vibrant city where history meets innovation, and tradition thrives alongside modern energy? Mérida is more than just a destination—it’s a
Forget chestnuts roasting on an open fire- this holiday season, Mérida, Mexico, is serving up something much steamier. With its tropical climate, festive streets, proximity to beautiful beaches, and vibrant Yucatecan vibe, Mérida is the perfect backdrop to add a little spice to your love life. Whether you’re cozying up with your partner, soaking in
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Mérida is a magical city that captures your heart the moment you step onto its sun-drenched streets. The colonial architecture, the lively plazas, and the warm, welcoming people create an atmosphere that’s both enchanting and invigorating. With all of the wonderful things to love about Merida, how easy is it to find love in Merida?
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